ok, so I got the certificate to work...the test looks good, i'm getting
xRCA is testing Exchange ActiveSync.
Exchange ActiveSync was tested successfully.
Attempting to resolve the host name MAIL.COMPANY.COM in DNS.
Host successfully resolved
IP(s) returned: ###.###.###.###
Testing TCP Port 443 on host MAIL.COMPANY.COM to ensure it is listening and open.
The port was opened successfully.
ExRCA is testing the SSL certificate to make sure it's valid.
The certificate passed all validation requirements.
The certificate name is being validated.
Successfully validated the certificate name
Found hostname droid.qualitel.net in Certificate Subject Common name
The certificate date is being confirmed to ensure the certificate is valid.
Date validation passed. The certificate hasn't expired.
Certificate is valid: NotBefore = 6/3/2010 6:56:14 PM, NotAfter = 6/2/2012 6:56:14 PM"
The IIS configuration is being checked for client certificate authentication.
Client certificate authentication wasn't detected.
Accept/Require Client Certificates not configured.
Testing Http Authentication Methods for URL https://droid.qualitel.net/Microsoft-Server-Activesync/
The HTTP authentication methods are correct.
Found all expected authentication methods and no disallowed methods. Methods Found: Basic
An ActiveSync session is being attempted with the server.
Testing an ActiveSync session completed successfully
ExRCA is attempting to send the OPTIONS command to the server.
OPTIONS response was successfully received and is valid
Headers received: Pragma: no-cache
Public: OPTIONS, POST
Allow: OPTIONS, POST
Date: Thu, 03 Jun 2010 19:11:45 GMT
ExRCA is attempting the FolderSync command on the Exchange ActiveSync session.
The FolderSync command completed successfully.
Number of Folders: 36
ExRCA is attempting the initial sync to the Inbox folder. This initial sync won't return any data.
The Sync command completed successfully.
ExRCA is attempting to test the GetItemEstimate command for the Inbox folder.
Successfully received GetItemEstimate Response from Server
Estimate: 672 messages
but...I'm still getting a cannot connect with current connect settings on my phone. USB still works fine, but activesync won't find the server.